There are times when you read a book that is so in sync with your values, philosophy, practice and approach, that you wonder “How come I didn’t think to write this?”
“The One Thing” by Gary Keller is such a book. Everything in it validates what I believe and practice. The idea is simple: Identify and do THE ONE THING that is so powerful and pivotal that it will create a domino effect for everything else. You do this by relentless asking of this Focusing Question:
“What is the One Thing that I will do such that by doing it everything will be easier or unnecessary?”
Those of you who have participated in my workshops know that I ALWAYS present a Focus Question to frame our deliberations. I invite participants to determine if we are asking the right question because, as I point out, we don’t want to get to the end of the workshop and find that we have answered the wrong question. As a facilitator, I know the power of this. But it never occurred to me that I could use it as a tool for my life, year, month, week and even day.
Here are a few of the other ideas that resonated:
- Instead of a “To Do” list, how about a “Success List”? This helps you to focus on results rather than activity;
- Time brings clarity. Don’t wait for all the answers, just start, because you can always change;
- Saying yes, means saying no to something else.
- Accept chaos as focus means that you will decide to not do some things and you will upset some folks. But the payoff is that you get the things that are important to you DONE.
“The One Thing” takes the theory into practice with a chapter on “Putting the One Thing to Work.” Using this section, within 24 hours I:
- Decided on, and wrote down my One Thing for the upcoming week for each of the categories– Spiritual, Personal, Physical, Key Relationships, Career, Business and Finances
- I blocked time in my calendar for my One Thing most days (not all, as I already had prior appointments)
- Each morning, I decide on my One Thing for that day
- And then I do it, one by one
And it works!!! In just 2 days I have completed 2 major projects that I had been procrastinating about, and did yesterday’s “One Thing” – spent the afternoon at the Georgia O’Keefe Exhibition at the Art Gallery of Ontario with a dear friend, followed by a leisurely lunch. Normally, I would have been tempted to cancel this in order to tackle my horrifying to do list. Instead, I did this “One Thing” with ease, grace and joy.
I have a lot more work to do, but I am just so excited to share this very, very powerful, liberating practice. Check out the book HERE and let me know how you use it, and the results you get.
SIMILAR POSTS BY MARGUERITE:
Simplicity in your Organization – It’s Simpler than You Think – click HERE to view article
Simplicity Vs Complexity: Choose – click HERE to view article
The Power of No – click HERE to view article
Thanks for recommending this. Sounds wonderful and I will check it out!
Dear Anne
Please let me know how it goes for you. The quest to organise time, to be more productive AND joyful is something that absorbs a lot of my time and thinking. So I am really happy to find this and to try it – so far, so good.
Joyfully
Marguerite
Thanks much as usual Marguerite – I will certainly read The ONE Thing and am looking forward to it. I just went into a shared folder I created for a team I am currently leading and changed our ‘To-Do’ list to a ‘Success’ list (I must confess to leaving ‘to-do’ in brackets for fear that team members might not know where to find our action items – baby steps).
Dear Susan
I did the same thing with my “to do” list! Just that little shift really helps. Keep me posted on your progress – baby steps in the right direction bring results.
Joyfully
Marguerite
Thanks Cousin – Hoping this will help get me out my “rut” so I have ordered the book from my library.
Will send an update.
Love Cantu
Thanks Cantu. And really happy you think this might help. Let me know how it goes!
Joyously
Marguerite
Marguerite I can’t begin to thank you enough for suggesting this book ” The One Thing” as a must read . Oh my goodness!!
Have always prided myself with my list making capabilities. Well after getting about a 1/3 of the way through this book I see why it’s my biggest downfall. Yes there are lists but the lists had no priorities so I was trying to get all these things done and more often than not NOT doing the most important things.
By the time I got to those I was plumb tuckered out and had no energy to complete the essential tasks .. ahhh.. EUREKA!!! I look forward to seeing what other gems I will glean.
Much thanks , from the Listmaker Wendy ☺️
Thanks Wendy. Your experience is similar to mine. I love making lists, but like you, attack the easiest things first. trying to prioritise was a lot of work, so just identifying ONE THING has been liberating. Keep reading and practicing that ONE THNG!
Gratefully and joyously
Marguerite